By Nicole Dhanraj
As imaging leaders, navigating the complexities of our demanding profession often means putting the needs of others and the organization before our own. Yet, while caring for others, it’s all too common to neglect our well-being.
This Rad Idea is not revolutionary but a rather audacious attempt to urge all of you to commit to self-advocacy for yourselves and those under your care.
Self-advocacy and setting boundaries aren’t just about drawing lines in the sand; it’s about reclaiming yourself, protecting your mental health and fostering a healthier work-life balance.
A leader who prioritizes self-care isn’t selfish; they’re stronger.
Here are some ideas on how to get started:
• Reflect on Your Limits: Identify stressors and energy drains, and remove what depletes you.
• Clarify What Matters Most: Remember what’s essential outside work – family, hobbies, and well-being. Do you know your non-negotiables? My life is not just about work. I am a multifaceted individual fueled by many things other than work.
• Speak Up: Advocate for your needs directly and honestly. I’ve decided to start speaking up and advocating for myself more. It’s not easy, but I’ve found that being direct and honest about my needs is the only way to make progress and our sanity.
• Take Small Steps: Begin with comfortable boundaries, like limiting after-hours work communication. Whew, that was hard as I felt guilty, but I reminded myself of the intent behind this action, which forced me to commit.
• Stay Firm: It’s natural to encounter resistance. Despite pushback, propose alternatives; for example, if someone needs urgent information after hours, suggest alternative solutions, including alternate staff members to contact and remind others that boundaries benefit everyone. I am also a giver, and I recognize this. But I’m learning to stay firm and remind myself that my well-being is worth it. You might worry about appearing unavailable. But remember, a leader who prioritizes their well-being is more effective.
• Lean on Others: Seek support from trusted colleagues and friends. I’ve found comfort in confiding in trusted colleagues and friends about my struggles with setting boundaries. Their support and encouragement have been invaluable as I navigate this journey.
• Practice Self-Compassion: Recognize that setting boundaries is self-care, not selfishness. It’s perfectly acceptable to prioritize my well-being, even if it entails saying no occasionally. Saying no gracefully is an acquired skill, and I’m gradually mastering it.
Amid the chaos, remember: boundaries aren’t barriers; they’re pathways to reclaiming ourselves and fostering a healthier work-life balance. Let’s pledge to prioritize self-advocacy as imaging leaders. By prioritizing our well-being, we cultivate resilience, discover fulfillment and, ultimately, provide better care for those we lead.
Nicole Dhanraj, Ph.D., SHRM-SCP, PMP, GPHR, CPSS, CRA, R.T(R)(CT)(MR), is an experienced imaging director.
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